yes a bench grinder & mop kit will do.
the pro's use the same equipment but on a bigger scale IE: more powerful motor, bigger distance between the wheels for bigger items, larger diameter quality mops and pro spec soap.
the chrome/ano finish will be dependant on the polishing, get the polishing perfect and you stand a better chance of a perfect finish.
examples below show polished example which has then been ano'd:
![](http://[img]http://www.radbmx.co.uk/archive/albums/v688/reknod/machinedfinishstem.jpg)
![](http://www.radbmx.co.uk/archive/albums/v688/reknod/polishedfinishstem2.jpg)
![](http://www.radbmx.co.uk/archive/albums/v688/reknod/polishedfinishstem1.jpg)
![](http://www.radbmx.co.uk/archive/albums/v688/reknod/anodisedstem1.jpg)
![](http://www.radbmx.co.uk/archive/albums/v688/reknod/anodisedstem2.jpg)
![](http://www.radbmx.co.uk/archive/albums/v688/reknod/0905011.jpg)
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