Speaking from experience as a relative newbie build wise (I spent about 5 years on here lurking before I started my build), trawl through the archives of
you won't find a better place anywhere to help you in your quest, and don't be afraid to ask questions however daft you might think they are, these days most on here are very helpful and friendly chaps.
Don't rush into buying parts because you can afford them and are desperate to get it done, wait a few more months and buy what you really want, while I'm happy with how my bike looks some of the copy/repop parts on it niggle at me and I know I need to change them to be totally happy with it
And one more thing, get used to telling your other half lies on a regular basis regarding how much you've spent
